When my efforts to employ Personal Kanban reached a point
where I felt I had gone as far as I could on my own, I decided it would be a
good idea to find a coach who could hopefully help me see things more
objectively, challenge me on the assumptions I was not conscious of and, in
general, find a way to become more disciplined in my approach. (The expectation
was that more discipline would result in greater productivity.)
Brian Bozzuto, an Agile Coach from
BigVisible was kind
enough to agree to act as my coach. We worked together for several weeks on a
number of different
I’m going to try and take these on at a time
in different postings.
aspects of my approach to Personal Kanban.
When we started out discussions about my approach to
Personal Kanban, one of my biggest questions was how to understand value. I was
operating under the idea that anything that does not add value is waste and
should be eliminated. There are things with clear value (doing work you get
paid for) and things which present no obvious value (sitting on the couch
watching a movie), but which have value in terms of a longer game because they
are restorative in some way. Still, I
was having a hard time in my internal argument for some of the latter.
In interviewing people about their use of Personal Kanban, I
encountered many who said they prioritized work solely by what makes them
“happy”. A few of these people said they only do things that bring them as much
joy as a child feeding ducks.
Which left me wondering… who changes the cat litter?
Boz and I talked for a while about happiness and he suggested
we both sign up for
Track Your Happiness. This was something he had not done
before either so he also agreed to sign up for the experiment. The service is
free. For a period of time the service will send you an invite (via SMS or
email) to log on to their site and take a quick survey of what you are doing,
and how you are feeling about it. It also provides some basic reporting so you
can see what information the data has to offer about how “happy” you are.
You can adjust the frequency of the surveys. They continue
until the report has enough data for it to be able to offer you some insights.
After that it is supposed to begin polling you again at some point in the
future.
When you take the surveys, some of them have questions which
clearly make sense and some which can start to seem rather tiresome because you
get asked them again and again. And there are some that are quite amusing. I
often received a question asking what I was doing at that moment. The options
included things like:
Working
Watching Television
Meditating
Praying
Making love with another person
Disclaimer: If you decide to try out Track Your Happiness and you feel
compelled to stop and answer a survey while you are making love… I really don’t
think Personal Kanban is going to solve your problems.
During the first few days I got a report that showed this:
What the service was telling me was that, based on my
responses up to that point, the place where I was happiest was at the airport.
Initially, this seemed horribly wrong on many levels. At the very least it
seemed comedically pathetic. But, on second thought, the airport is one of the
places I am usually the least stressed. I always arrive extra early, I book my
flights with lots of in between time, and in the aiport I’m generally just
spending time in my bubble, headphones on, working or reading. Other than my
borderline obsessive fear of germs from other passengers, it’s a pretty chill
place for me. (I should also point out that by this point in time I had only
been using Track Your Happiness while I was on the road. So no surveys had been
completed while I was at home.
As I used the service and kept reviewing the reports, I
started to wonder if happiness was really a good way to frame value within the
context of Personal Kanban. The “happy as a kid feeding ducks” thing weighed
quite heavily into that. (I should mention that this explanation of the kid
feeding a duck thing is slightly incorrect. This will be revisited in a separate
post in the future.)
In the end, I have come to the conclusion that there are
people who try to prioritize their work so that they only do what makes them
happy. From speaking with these people, they tend to delegate or refuse to do
things that do not make them happy. For me, and the way I look at the things I do, there
are things that I do which clearly bring me happiness, like taking my wife out to
dinner or playing a game with my daughter. And there are things I do that,
initially, do not seem to have happiness to offer me. I believe that when faced with those types of
things to do, regardless of what it is, it is the frame with which we look at
the thing which helps us see value in it, or not. For example, I may have a very difficult
client to deal with. This may be someone I had a history of trouble
communicating with. Rather than approaching it with a “this will not bring me
happiness mindset”, I try to remember to approach it with “what positive thing
can I derive from this encounter”. If it is a difficult client, maybe it is as
simple as trying to improve my ability at being present and actively listening
to them, or being diplomatic, or understanding their body language and trying
to use my own to see if it can impact the situation in a favorable way.
Working through this exercise of spending a few weeks
completing the surveys was incredibly helpful in developing my understanding of
how I see value. The biggest epiphany for me was realizing that I actually like
pretty much everything I do, in one way or another. Before going through this
survey I had no awareness of that and would never have agreed with this
statement. Going through the process of being questioned over and over about
whether or not I would prefer to be doing something else made me keenly aware
of the fact that my issue is not that I have things which make me happy and
things which make me unhappy. I just have things that, in one way or another,
make me happy. I enjoy doing all of them either because of the action of doing
them, or the benefits they provide.
Realizing this was a significant discovery for me.
Unfortunately, it brought me right back to where I started. I have many things
to do. My challenge with prioritization is that I want to do them all. To one
extent or another, they all provide value for me.
So at this point, the question is not “does it provide
value”, but “does something else provide more value”, or how to I balance the
“valuable” things I am doing so that there is enough work, enough personal,
etc.?